Become the most
Self-Centered person
in your household
THE SELF-CENTERED MOM
Without blowing up your family,
feeling like a “bad mom,”
or losing the people you love.
you still are.
you were that girl.You had opinions. You had fire. You had a whole vision that felt like yours.
Then somewhere between getting married, having kids, and the thousand small decisions you made to keep the peace… that version of you got buried.
That girl got silenced, one small accommodation at a time.
This is where you rebuild a life that actually has room for her.
For you.
LET ME GUESS
Your whole day, from the time you wake up until you pass out, revolves around everyone the fuck else?
But what you really want, what you’d give damn near anything for, is…
a household that doesn't depend entirely on you
a marriage where you’re known and loved instead of a default household manager/maid/mom
time that belongs to you
freedom from guilt, resentment, and exhaustion
to want things again
to be a woman again instead of just a mom
And if things don’t change…you just might commit arson. So it’s time for a major life-renovation.
But you don’t know exactly where to start.
the Self-Centered
Mom Society
introducingA 12-Month Group coaching experience for moms who are done living for everyone else.
Become the most self-centered woman in your house … and rebuild a life that’s actually structured around you.
All without blowing up your family, becoming the “bad mom” everyone warned you about, or losing the people you love.
Oh hey, I'm Evelyn and I am going to change your life forever.
I know what it looks like to perform a role so well that everyone around you — including you — thinks it's real.
I know what it's like to be the person who holds everything together and realize, slowly, that you have no idea what you actually want.
That every desire you have is linked to someone else.
That somewhere along the way, you stopped dreaming for yourself.
I've been in the marriage where I was needed but not known.
…And I’ve rebuilt it all.
Myself first, then everything else.
And the life I'm in now is structurally different from anything I had before, because I am structurally different.
My daughters are different because of this work — because of who they get to watch me be.
How they watch me live. I Live like I matter, and as a result, they do too.
Me dedication through this work is to help women end the lineage of self-abandonment and self-sacrifice that’s called “womanhood” and “motherhood”, and replace it with a legacy of entire families who understand women to be whole, happy, self-actualized, self directed, self-centered human beings.
This is the work that changed my life.
And it’s going to change yours too.
my approachA gut punch, and a warm hug.
I tell the truth, and I help you see and speak your own truth…
even when it’s hare to hear. Because that’s where real change happens.
Structural redesign, not theory.
You’ve collected enough information. You’ve read the books. You understand the patterns. Now it’s time to implement and embody it by making new choices. You’re going to create change that results in a different daily life — one your kids can see, your partner can feel, and actually honors your needs and wants.
Accountability to your deepest desires.
No more of you wanting things deep down that you never speak or act on, that you feel like you just can’t have (or at least not until the kids are grown). No more of you setting yourself aside. No more committing to things you want to do for yourself, and dropping them by day 3 because someone asks you to do something.
When you work with me, you choose accountability that you’re going to create change that lasts this time.
HOW I CAN HELP
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HOW I CAN HELP •
Alignment Hour
When you know something is off but you’re not even sure what it is, or where to start…this is the place to start. One private hour for you where we get to the bottom of exactly what you need, and help you decide what you’re going to do about it.
The 12-month group program for the mom who is done living for everyone but herself… but doesn’t want to blow up her family.
This is where you create the structure that makes it all possible, in a community of women who are rejecting the traditional programming of “mom comes last.”
The Self-Centered Mom Society
The Legacy Within
A 6 month 1:1 coaching journey for the woman ready for deep, lasting, life overhaul. You get your spark back, know yourself, and have a life that centers you…which means a complete family restructure to support the woman you are…without losing the people you love.
★★★★★
MELANA D.
“I used to think being strong meant I had to be alone in it all. Evelyn showed me that I can know myself, take up space, and still be loved - deeply, fully. I don't have to choose between being a strong woman and being a wife and a mom. She's living proof that it's possible, and being in her world made me believe it was possible for me too.”
★★★★★
jAMEELAH D.
“I feel more connected to myself. I'm learning to listen to my needs instead of overriding them, and I have more compassion for myself instead of constantly expecting more. I'm finally pleasing myself rather than prioritizing pleasing others.
I don't have to deplete myself to show love or be successful - and now my family gets to watch a woman who knows that.”
★★★★★
Lauren C
“Evelyn, you didn’t just help me with my thoughts and mind, you helped transform my existence. You have a way of understanding my pain and giving me language for what I feel. You connected with my soul, even when I couldn’t.
★★★★★
SARA C
“This program changed my relationship to food and myself forever. I no longer diet or binge… at all. I see how themes were recurring in my life: depriving, bingeing, pleasing, over-explaining, compensation, etc. They all stemmed from how I felt about me. I wanted to feel important to people, but first I need to be important to ME. ”
★★★★★
LTIMEKA TT
“When I wasn’t happy and feeling like I wasn’t enough, I was fixated on being smaller because for me, that was the pathway to becoming enough. So I don’t have to chase “smaller” anymore because I know I’m enough.”
★★★★★
LIndsay d
“Through our work together, I’ve learned to view myself and my health - mental, emotional, physical - in a more connected way. I now see how everything is intertwined: my self-perception, the stories I tell myself, and my relationship with food and my body. Before, I was using food to numb feelings of being out of control in ohter areas of my life. The biggest shift for me has been removing judgment and shame around food and getting curious about the stories I was telling myself. Instead of feeling like I had to earn my worth, I’ve connected to the belief that I am worthy of love just as I am…. and that has been the most powerful realization.”
FREE GROUP
Join The Self-Centered
Mom Group on Facebook
A free community of women just like you, dismantling the same conditioning, asking the same hard questions, and refusing to pass the same old self-sacrifice patterns down to their children.
Community, connection, and Monthly Live Sessions with Evelyn included.
LISTEN NOW
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LISTEN NOW •
listen nowThe Self-Centered Mom Podcast
Honest conversations about putting yourself first without blowing up your family, feeling like a bad mom or losing the people you love.